I stay at home to bring up my kids, my hubby goes out to work,i think thats just fine, do you?

I think you sound like a great mother. Your kids will apreciate this when they are older and your husband should and probably does appreciate the work you are putting into your kids lives. Im guessing your sister-in-law hasnt got children. I think you should tell her that raising children isnt easy. Im not a mother (luckly coz im only 15) but i do correspondence and im glad my mum worked at home and gave us all her attention. I feel very close to her now and when im going through a hard time its nice to know shes there. By being the best mother you can be your giving your children the attention they need they will grow up to feel they can trust you and that you'll be there when they need you. Mothers are important. Your the people that us children rely on. We trust your words and feel cormforted by your hugs and smiles. If you were a working mother you might not be there for your children when they most need you. So i feel stick to your instincts and keep raising your children to be the best they can be.